Rejoinder!!!!!!!!
A friend in CA just sent me a set of cones made from Ebony wood (DIY). I was trying to get a friend of his to make me some.... But, the wood is hard to come by, he said, so he sent me a set in the meantime. WOW! What can I say! WOOD is the only way I suppose. So far, I've used rubber (Vibrapods), granite squares, etc., etc. They all sucked. The main issue was the bad tonality they gave.
I was very, very pleasantly surprised at these Ebony cones under the preamp. The bass became firmer, more potent. There's more shine up there also because of a "cleaner" sound? Most critically, the musicality was not compromised at all (those other toys did damage, IMO).